Inspiration & Healing Conveyed 31 Ways
Review by Jennifer Hollowell
Panic and anxiety have been bearing their ugly head in
one way or another my entire life. I watched close family members
endure bouts of agoraphobia. I witnessed various methods of
self-destruction in an attempt to battle social anxiety. I see
current family members struggle with obsessive-compulsive disorder and
agoraphobia. And I, too, experienced panic attacks, generalized
anxiety and agoraphobia to the point it was necessary to seek outside
help.
"Adult anxiety can often be traced to untreated childhood
anxiety . . ."
– (excerpt) Paul Foxman, Ph.D.
Sometimes, when wallowing in the pit with our peers, its difficult to
imagine life being any other way. Particularly when family members
are those who are enduring the struggles. Its all you know.
Its an endless cycle of symptom swapping . . . or . . . does it have to
be? Feelings of aloneness, solitude and freakishness or other
definitions are also commonly floating through the minds of these
sufferers.
". . . you are not alone in your struggle. Believe me, you
are not."
– (excerpt) Ellen M. Dubois
Reading and rereading the stories of thirty-one diverse individuals in
Jenna Glatzer's Conquering Panic and Anxiety Disorders: Success
Stories, Strategies, and Other Good News anthology was like
breathing fresh air for the first time after spending several months
trapped in a cave. The bravery, triumphs and courage described in
these passages shined new light and gave new meaning to what I thought
could never change. Its evident to me now that the ability to heal
is within us all.
"The attitude that maintains my happiness is the attitude of
gratitude."
– (excerpt) Corinna Fritz
Commentaries are provided by Paul Foxman, Ph.D. at the end of each
story. Not only does he pick apart what each individual went
through, his explanations offer further page-turning appeal for those
trying to jimmy the lock on the door to their personal freedom from
these disorders.
Resources are available throughout the book in the way of book
recommendations, support groups and therapy options just to name a few.
Glatzer also has a list compiled at the end of the book for quick
reference. Each story, commentary and resource featured in this
book creates not only an uplifting piece of inspiration, but also a
strong weapon to add to the arsenal against these disorders.
Review by Bob Rich, Australian psychologist and author of Anger
and Anxiety:
This book is a must for everyone who has suffered from undue anxiety,
or from a long list of physical symptoms that has had the doctors
baffled-for not all doctors recognize the symptoms of anxiety. It is
also a wonderful resource for psychologists.
I have been a psychologist for a long time, and have worked with many
an anxiety sufferer, but I learned lots from Dr. Foxman's comments at
the end of each chapter. For example, 'In order for PTSD victims to
improve, they must give themselves permission to recover.' Many of the
contributors taught me new insights too.
The book contains thirty-one personal stories. They are indexed by
the problem affecting the sufferer, and by the helpful techniques
described within the stories. From the Foreword by
Professor David Barlow, who is a leader in the field of research on the
treatment of anxiety disorders: 'Not everyone benefits from the same
treatment. Among those who do benefit from one or another treatment, not
everyone is "cured." That is why the book you are about to
read is so important. It is increasingly easy to find descriptions of
one treatment or another in a magazine or on a website. But seldom do we
find how individuals-real people-incorporate these treatments into their
lives along with many other techniques, remedies, and suggestions that
have enabled each of the thirty-two individuals portrayed in this book
to fight the good fight and overcome, for the most part, their anxiety
disorders.'
Jenna Glatzer's Prologue: 'While editing this book, I also got a few
notes from people who wrote to tell me that this was a futile effort,
because no one really "recovers" from an anxiety disorder;
they just learn to deal with it better. I didn't come this far in my
life to learn how to "deal." I came here to conquer. I told
these naysayers, with all due respect, that the entire purpose of my
book was to prove them wrong.'
Dr Foxman reports in his Introduction that anxiety disorders are the
most common sources of distress, outranking even depression. He states
that 25% of Americans will suffer from severe anxiety at some point in
their lifetime. A recovered sufferer himself, he writes: 'My treatment
philosophy is based on the belief that anxiety is largely a learned
reaction to stress, and that with practice it can be replaced by more
productive responses.'
The first chapter is Jenna's own story, and it had me in tears:
wonderful evocative writing worthy of a great novelist--and every word
ringing true. I have worked with agoraphobics, and this was it.
I
was rather saddened that many of the contributors could only
climb out of their terrible situation through the extended use of drugs.
Dr. Foxman's comments on this issue are valid and wise.
Renee Decter's story shows that even the worst cases of anxiety
disorder can be beaten through therapy alone, without drugs.
In my experience, drugs may be necessary in the initial stages of
fighting back, so that the sufferer can mask the symptoms enough to have
the energy to fight back. Beyond that, it is actually helpful to be able
to feel the anxiety, so that it can be weakened with cognitive-behavioural
tools. You can only work on the problem when you feel it.
I could lift many wonderful quotes from the many contributors, but a
few will do: in Chapter 6, Kim Phelan wrote: 'Anxiety is a gift in that
it forces us to change if we can face the challenge of dealing with it.'
Gene Gillam in Chapter 13 made me want to hug him as he wrote: 'So what
if you fall down? That's why they invented getting up.' Jacqueline
Hampton in Chapter 22: 'Sometimes the best way to conquer fear is to
give yourself permission to be afraid of something and then to do it
anyway.'
Jenna writes at the end: 'I want you to close this book with three
thoughts in mind: You are not crazy, you are not alone, and there is
hope.' This is spot on. The Resources section at the
end of the book is a valuable list of tools for fighting anxiety.
As an editor, I often get annoyed with published books that are
poorly written, full of typos and poor in grammar. This book was
wonderfully produced. I found only one minor typo, and it is clear that
Jenna is as meticulous in the writing part of her work as in the
healing.