All it takes to solve the problem is for the citizenry to remember a simple equation:
Government <> Society
Then be honest enough to recognize the truth of the OP, that government isn't designed to help the little guy and local communities. It's designed to give the perception of caring while shifting wealth as rapidly as possible from the productive class to the political class.
I think if people quit crawling to the oligarchs, demanding they fix anything we perceive as a problem in society, expecting them to punish anybody who doesn't want to do what we say and expecting them to kiss our boo-boo every time we scrape our knee it might be a start.
We might even stop taking the talking heads word for things, get outside and look around, and perform our own interpretation of what's actually going on in the world. We need to get past our fear of the world and start taking responsibility for our own actions.
And then we might work together locally with others who have the same concerns, finding cooperative, non-coercive ways to tackle those problems we used to expect Uncle Sam to handle by writing long lists of regulations that end up favoring the One Percent, or forcibly taking stuff from some people and giving it to others.
As long as the vast majority of people (present company excepted, of course) sit every night before the boob tube and limit their civic involvement to pulling a lever every couple of years, we'll keep mooing in our pens like so many cattle, and be sent to the sheering house and finally the slaughterhouse with the same regularity, and with the same lack of true concern from the sheepherders and wranglers that we experience today.
In short, we need to stop expecting the government to be our parents and start acting like adults. Then maybe we'd have the chops to demand they stop treating us like children.
Given that the same group of oligarchs control the educational system, I'm not holding my breath.
Government is not your protector; politicians are not your friends, they are predators. It really is that simple.