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Two arranged marriage plots I don't want to read again:
1. A girl living in a society where arranged marriages are the norm is told by her parents that they've found a husband for her. Stunned and outraged, she declares she will only marry for love, then runs away. Bonus points if, by doing so, she puts herself in a dangerous situation and has to be rescued.
2. A man knows he has to go through with an arranged marriage, but he decides to have one last fling before he reluctantly does his duty. So he goes off someplace and meets an exciting stranger who turns him on. They spend a few days having hot sex in various positions and locales before parting sadly, and with a lump in his throat if not his pants, he goes off to meet his future spouse for the first time.
But what an amazing coincidence, his spouse turns out to be the exciting stranger! Cue happy ending. For everyone except me.
Add me to the list of people who despise those versions of arranged marriage plots. They raise so many questions that have no logical answer for someone who was raised with those expectations and doesn't wish to leave their society for another one which doesn't practice the customs, suddenly going along with it grudgingly or not. Why is the person outraged if they knew it would happen on day? Why would either party if straight and without any objections to the practice itself, "be resigned?" Why [insert a million logical inconsistencies here]?
Also, why the heck do they never object on the grounds that so and so's arranged marriage turned out badly and so have other peoples as well? If you expect all your life this will happen, know both the good and bad possibilities; wouldn't you try to get out of it is that, if that is your desire, by citing that it doesn't always work? Point out the flaws and such in the plan?