How much control is too much?

Elodie-Caroline · 06-16-2008, 07:47 PM

Coming back to this a minute. I know I'm bossy, I know I want my own way all of the time, I'm selfish. But the other week, I asked my husband if he minded that I was such a control freak. He shrugged and grinned and said, 'No, it doesn't bother me.'
I see it as; there are leaders and there are followers. I make all of the important decisions in our house, I say where we go and when, what colour we have the rooms and everything else. Because if I left these things up to my hubby, they would never get done and he'd be saying, 'I don't know?' all of the time, so I just take control of all situations, it suits us both.
I am also bossy with everyone else who knows me too

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06-16-2008, 07:47 PM	#19
Elodie-Caroline Banned Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,021	Coming back to this a minute. I know I'm bossy, I know I want my own way all of the time, I'm selfish. But the other week, I asked my husband if he minded that I was such a control freak. He shrugged and grinned and said, 'No, it doesn't bother me.' I see it as; there are leaders and there are followers. I make all of the important decisions in our house, I say where we go and when, what colour we have the rooms and everything else. Because if I left these things up to my hubby, they would never get done and he'd be saying, 'I don't know?' all of the time, so I just take control of all situations, it suits us both. I am also bossy with everyone else who knows me too