Contract of Wifely Expectations

i'm pretty sure this "contract" would be ruled unconscionable, that is, unenforceable due to be really, really, unfair.

Hubby just added:

This guy's instincts aren't that unusual. Problem is, he's just a dork!

was corrected on my timeline

Lol! Yeah, if you're going to be that dominant, you'd better have the suave goods to go with it.

I agree with you Carole, she almost had to have bought into it somewhat. I mean she married him after she got a gander at that contract. Sounds like dumbass got a little full of himself and the game got out of hand.

ETA - I wasn't thinking that the contract with all of its references to children was in all liklihood drawn up after marriage. There was probably at least a mild dominant/submissive thing going on at the outset, but obviously things went awry.

Faulty memory and lazy logic on my part.

Perks said:

Lol! Yeah, if you're going to be that dominant, you'd better have the suave goods to go with it.

I agree with you Carole, she almost had to have bought into it somewhat. I mean she married him after she got a gander at that contract. Sounds like dumbass got a little full of himself and the game got out of hand.

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Where did it say that she saw the contract before she married the man? All I read at the SG site was that he was arrested for the attempted kidnapping. The constant mention of children gave me the impression that this was a contract drawn up after marriage and some kids (but then again, I have nothing to support that but what I read at the SG site).

Yikes, you know what? I don't know why I didn't think that all the way through. That's very true. I'll edit.

reph said:

I read the document yesterday. I'd have to review it to make sure, but I think the only one I qualify for is skirt length, and I don't wear skirts often enough to get much benefit from that clause.

Mr. Frey forbade his wife to criticize him during certain hours of the day. That means that the rest of the time she could yell "Control freak! Pervert! You and your stupid contract!"

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Heh, I qualify for most of them, but wouldn't want to be forced into any of them.

I just wanted to say that this man is seriously screwed up. He clearly states in his little 'contract' that if his wife is 'non-compliant', then he will tie her to the bed and do whatever he wishes to her and that it will happen EVERY night until she decides to be compliant again. That's just out and out rape. It disgusts me that SOME men seem to think that just because a woman says, "I do." and puts that ring on her finger, it means that they now own her body. I don't see a problem with people role-playing or even indulging in S&M, that's a personal preference. But telling your wife that you will tie her to the bed and do whatever you want to do to her body, and say that it will happen EVERY night until she decides to be 'compliant' again??? The man has some screws loose.

If my husband and I agreed to do something like that, that's one thing. But if he EVER tied me to the bed and decided to do whatever he wanted to as a form of punishment because I was 'non-compliant', well, he'd better think twice about untying me. I know where to find a cast-iron skillet, and I would have NO compunctions about using it. Heck, I'd call his mama and we'd both have a blanket party.

And that part about her losing those stupid GBDs for being 'non-compliant' if she started something and couldn't finish it because it HURT???? OMG. That tells me that this is one selfish bas***d who cares only about his own desires.

It also doesn't help that the TSG site states that the man is also facing child pornography charges. That doesn't point to a man who's trying to add some spice to their sexual life, to me it points to a man with some very serious issues. It also makes me wonder if that's the reason that he said that his wife would be rewarded with 2 GBD points if she was clean-shaven in her nether-regions.

I think the guy's sick and needs some serious professional help.

I agree completely. It's one thing to tie someone up to...please them, but quite another to tie them up to abuse them.

Carole said:

Ok, I am about to piss everyone off here, probably.

I read that contract to my husband. He laughed and said, "Oh man. That guy's not wrapped too tight."

But

He reminded me of something. First off, this chick probably wouldn't be in the position of marrying him if she didn't already know that he was overtly dominant and was attracted to that. And he more than likely wouldn't be in the position of marrying her if she was not already submissive to him, at least in some ways. That sets the scene. The contract is ridiculous, IMO, but in their personal relationship are his demands that off the wall?

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Without a safety word, it is!

The guy is a serious fruitcake. If I was married to him he'd soon be dining on a nice tossed rhubarb leaf salad washed down with a little hemlock tea.

Btw is it just me, or does anyone else think he looks like Scott Peterson?

I just found it rather excessive. My Contract of Girlfriendly Expectations is only 2 pages long.

brokenfingers said:

I just found it rather excessive. My Contract of Girlfriendly Expectations is only 2 pages long.

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Bet you wrote it in crayon, too.

I've written up a contract for my boyfriend.

1) If Boyfriend is doing laundry, boyfriend will first check sweaters for a "dry clean only" label before throwing said sweaters into the wash.

2) Boyfriend will laugh at my jokes whether they are funny or not.

3) Boyfriend will eat the rest of my French fries.

4) Boyfriend will not interrupt me on Wednesday nights between 8-9pm central time if a new episode of Lost is on.

5) Boyfriend will not drag me to any movies made by Michael Moore.

My husband and I have a very practical Contract of Mutual Boredom. I am allowed to talk about writing, books, authors, and publishing and he's allowed to glaze over while I talk. On the flipside he is allowed to talk about programming, computers, work and cars and I'm allowed to glaze over while he talks.

No need for tying anyone up so that they'll listen to you.

jackie106 said:

3) Boyfriend will eat the rest of my French fries.

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Can I have your French fries?

TemlynWriting said:

Can I have your French fries?

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Of course! I'm grateful to anyone who will save me from excess calories.

Jackie

Wonder if he'll try to get off with an insanity plea?