Go, Hathor! Sounds really positive!!!
Besides being super busy the last few days with day job, it's been crickets in my inbox. I can't even claim any chocolate!
So far it seems like having someone read my proposal has been the kiss of death. We'll see.
At least I've finished going through P & E. That wasn't as bad as I thought. I thought it would be easier to research agencies rather than individual agents, so that narrowed down the list immensely. Once I crossed off the agencies I'd already researched, the ones that aren't recommended, and the ones in other countries (as well as some entries that say something is a literary agency but it isn't), it was a far more manageable list. With googling, I could easily find the ones that have fallen off the face of the earth, have no sales, have an entertaining AW thread, take no unsolicited queries, or have no relevant genres. (Part of my need to research so hard is that my book has elements of a variety of genres. So deciding to query someone is more of a gestalt sort of decision.)
I've been left with a fairly substantial list of folks I can query that simply didn't show up in searches on the usual sites. Descriptions sometimes varied between QT, AQ, PM, and the agencies' websites. Or an agent might say they like genres X, Y, and Z, but really they will look at any book that fits a certain description -- and I think that description fits mine.
Oh well, queries are cheap. Except for the snail mail ones that require lots of pages

I haven't printed out a bunch of copies of my proposal for those who want that with the query due to cost. But I suppose if I'm willing to print out P & E (more manageable to work with that way), I should be able to justify sending a few proposals into the unknown, at least for what seem to be the best candidates.
Now I just have to decide whether to wait until more R's come in or just go ahead and query these people right away.
As for the chocolate, if you want, I can come up with a rationalization for why you should have some
