I'm with you, Judy. I don't think they are harmful (in moderation), and they make great motivational tools. They can even be beneficial:
http://www.usatoday.com/tech/gaming/2008-08-18-video-games-learning_N.htm
My boys' video game playing ebbs and flows. Right now they are really into ice hockey, so they are spending most of their time roller blading.
http://www.usatoday.com/tech/gaming/2008-08-18-video-games-learning_N.htm
My boys' video game playing ebbs and flows. Right now they are really into ice hockey, so they are spending most of their time roller blading.