I must note that I love witty banter, which I do not consider small talk. Small talk, to me, is the endless pointless exchange of information about the weather and mundane details of one another's lives. Witty banter stimulates me; extended discussion of the tribulations of finding a good preschool make me run for the door. (It's gotta be genuinely witty, though. And that's rare. Alas.)
I can easily spend a couple of hours in conversation with someone and emerge with no idea of what she does for a living or whether he is married (I never notice rings or think to ask unless I think he's attractive).
Shy, no. Easily bored by conversations, yes. Bored when alone, never.
I can easily spend a couple of hours in conversation with someone and emerge with no idea of what she does for a living or whether he is married (I never notice rings or think to ask unless I think he's attractive).
Shy, no. Easily bored by conversations, yes. Bored when alone, never.
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