A lot of the erotica experiences I've had are... how would you say - hardcore(?). Lots of focus on visceral interactions, fetishes, dreamy-rape-y, kind-of-incestuous, absurd, taboo-focused, fast-paced, hard-hits (I mean hip-thrusting, you know), etc.
So I've been trying to slow it down and make something that may end up being lightly erotic. It's a romantic situation between a pair of characters, and I don't want it to end up being like watching porn. In the same vein, I've never written something that's light and fluffy - softcore(?).
How, then, do you execute slow, sexual sex so that it focuses on the character's relationship with one another without feeling like porn? Or boring the hell out of someone, for that matter.
So I've been trying to slow it down and make something that may end up being lightly erotic. It's a romantic situation between a pair of characters, and I don't want it to end up being like watching porn. In the same vein, I've never written something that's light and fluffy - softcore(?).
How, then, do you execute slow, sexual sex so that it focuses on the character's relationship with one another without feeling like porn? Or boring the hell out of someone, for that matter.