If you want to get deep into reading, here are some books that might help:
How To Read A Book by Mortimer J. Adler and Charles Van Doren. This mostly applies to non-fiction books, but it did touch on fiction. This is a great book, and I really recommend it to gain a deeper insight on all books you read. It teaches you how to inspect a book, analyze a book, dissect a book and compare/contrast a book to another one with the same topic.
How To Read Literature Like a Professor by Thomas C Foster. This book shows you the intricacies of story and literature. He touches on imagery and symbols that fly above our heads at first glance. He's also witty on the page, and it really makes the whole read enjoyable.
Now that I recommended those, picking up a novel or a short story won't hurt. If you want to analyze, I recommend starting with short stories. Find your favorite author and see if they've published a collection of their own short stories.
Hope this helps.
I can't read purely for enjoyment. I read to analyze everything. I look at characters, setting, point of view, dialogue, themes, and everything under the sun. This may be why I leave very little books after finishing with a very good overall feeling about the story. I usually dislike the book. Something always doesn't sit right with me. A plot hole that most wouldn't consider a hole, or a character that isn't really likeable, or unbelievable character motivations, or unsurprising endings, or endings that I would have done differently, or too many love triangles, or not enough description, or too much description....
How can I dissect a book and leartn from it,>? And what are your metholodgies for reading a book yourxelf? And how cna I learn from reading sad books?
I basically do what rwm does. Read. Read read read everything that interests me, and maybe some that don't. Remember the things that stood out and try to apply them into my own writing in my own way. Then read more. If there's something specific I'm looking for answers on, then I'll try to absorb it during a second reading, but I usually end up just reading straight through and going "Damn, I meant to pay attention to [that thing I forgot about.]"
Can someone tell me how to be a better reader?
How can I dissect a book and leartn from it?
That sounds like a depressing way to read. I prefer to have that good feeling when I finish a book. I'll notice things I don't agree with, but I realize just how hard it is to write a book. No book will ever be perfect.