Whether or not Hale is crazy, vindictive, foolish, self-aggrandizing, or whatever, her actions took place in a world where the rapid responses of everyone are escalating something beyond any control. My question is, how do you (anyone) want to relate to that? Do you want to go with that strong current and have your two cents feed the flood? Or is there some other way of relating to this?
Maybe Hale is "crazy", and honestly, I can understand the impulse to investigate what her motives might possibly be. For one thing, is this something I myself might ever do? I sure would like to be certain that is not so! Or, maybe it's something that is yielding a benefit that we can't see for sure yet, like publicity that Hale will ultimately gain from. Would I do this kind of thing if I thought I could gain such traction and remain outside of serious repercussions?
I guess I think that's where the fascination lies, with this.
Yes. Whatever Hale's issues may be, it's the role of the facilitating medium, the Internet, and our attempts to hammer out definitions of Internet civility and appropriateness, that I find really interesting.
Granted, some authors and reviewers had nasty, contentious relationships in per-Internet times. I don't think the medium creates the hostility, just makes everything escalate so much faster. I grew up pre-Internet, and the speeding up of everything makes my head swim sometimes.
I think for each of us, there are things we really weren't meant to see, things from which we can derive no benefit, and online culture can make them dangerously visible to us. We have to know what we can handle.
Does anyone remember the chapter in one of the Narnia books where Lucy gets to spy on her friends and see them talking trash about her? Her guide reminds her that what she is seeing is still not the whole truth, just one piece of the picture. (For instance, one friend could be slamming her just to impress the other friend, not because she actually feels that way.)
An author reading Goodreads status updates and reviewers trash-talking the book strikes me as similar. People are saying what they felt in the moment, or what felt appropriate to the community, without self-censorship or any attempt at politeness. The author is, essentially, eavesdropping, and eavesdropping on people who are talking about you seldom ends well.
Not saying it's bad for authors to be on GR, and I'm sure reading the actual reviews can be useful to many. But the candor of the discussion combined with the ease of responding can be a recipe for disaster if the author doesn't know how to take a deep breath and step away from the computer.
I think everyone using the internet should know and accept that people will say things there they would never, ever say to your face, and if you let yourself care too much, things will escalate. Hale's desire for a face-to-face meeting with Harris suggests to me she did not accept this as the reality of being online. She wanted to drag things into RL where Harris would (in Hale's view) be shamed by her own words.
Can you imagine if celebrities and politicians demanded that everybody who trashed them online do so to their faces? What writers experience seems tame by comparison.