In one of my poems, I used the phrase "glared daggers into your back." As someone pointed out, and as I was well aware, "staring daggers" at someone is certainly a phrase that has been used before. But, after much thought, I kept it in the poem. In that one particular instance, I thought "fresher" images felt distracting, and did not serve the purpose of that line.
As I recall, in one of Stew's poems, she used the phrase "and you can't take a joke." My first reaction, and that of a couple of others, was that she might find a fresher phrase that matched the freshness of the rest of her poem. But the more I rolled the poem as a whole in my head, the more I thought Stew's decision to use that line was the right one for the poem.
We aren't all going to connect emotionally with every poem, or every line of a poem. We might write it differently if it were our own. But before we dismiss something as "cliche" in a critique -- or automatically conclude that it therefore ought to be changed -- it's worthwhile to weigh whether, in the context of the poem, it truly is a cliche, and whether, even if it is, it isn't nonetheless serving the purposes of the poem.
That is, if you genuinely are seeking to be helpful and to engage with the poem and the poet.
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I should add -- I was not remotely offended by having my "glaring daggers" pointed out as potentially a cliche. Not only was it on-point in that instance, but it also was part of a detailed and very thoughtful critique on my work, for which I was quite grateful (thank you, Kuwi). It was not in the least dismissive, and it was certainly something I found worthwhile to reconsider.
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That said, I have sometimes been irked by piss-and-go critiques on other people's poems that dismissed them as "cliche" without much (or any) basis.