My question is if the business doesn't support your lifestyle choices why would you want to darken their doorstep? I once drove three hours to buy a brand new sewing machine because the local sewing machine stores manager is a complete and total asshat, hubs told me there was no way I was going to buy a machine from them. I'm glad I didn't, he managed to run the business into the ground he was so rude, and lewd, towards women and I mean ALLwomen!
Not everyone can afford to drive across or out of state to frequent businesses. Also, until you go and find out they don't serve "your kind" you don't know. What if no one wants do serve "your kind"? Move?