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LazyDay,
One thing wee baby writers are taught at Viable Paradise is not to engage the critics in fights because it harms your reputation. One thing customer service personal are taught is not to argue with the customer because it harms your reputation. One thing tech people are taught is not to bash the business units because it harms your reputation. (See the pattern here?)
When your reputation is damaged, it makes it that much harder to do business properly and get the credibility you need to get new business. I know so many professions, aside from publishing, where the people involved know this for a fact. Reputation is everything. If you feel like you're being attacked, fighting back is best done by answering questions and showing why you're so good at what you do, not by responding with passive aggressive insults.
When you punch holes in the hull of your ship while you're still at dry dock, how do you expect to sail without mishap?
I am a published writer. I've seen good and bad in the industry. I'm not as experienced as writers like Uncle Jim, but I have been published in several different genres. Usually, I like giving people the benefit of the doubt. I find it hard to do so, however, when you're busy sabotaging yourself by your actions.
I do hope that you make it. That would be fantastic. In the meantime, there are two things you may have forgotten or just not understood about the publishing industry.
1) The publishing industry is like other industries in that one thing drives it. Word of mouth. One customer that likes you won't be as vocal as one customer that dislikes you. Same situation as people you work with.
2) The publishing industry is different than most industries in that this is a *small* community. Everyone "knows" everyone, or how to spread the word to everyone. The wee baby author you insult today may be tomorrow's top editor that can blacklist you so fast your company loses everything.
I see that you removed the blog post in question. That's a start. But here's your chance to show us that you mean what you say and that you can do what you say. Actions speak louder than words. I wish you good luck with your launch. In the meantime, I think I shall do as several people have recommended and wait to see how well you do with what you have.
One thing wee baby writers are taught at Viable Paradise is not to engage the critics in fights because it harms your reputation. One thing customer service personal are taught is not to argue with the customer because it harms your reputation. One thing tech people are taught is not to bash the business units because it harms your reputation. (See the pattern here?)
When your reputation is damaged, it makes it that much harder to do business properly and get the credibility you need to get new business. I know so many professions, aside from publishing, where the people involved know this for a fact. Reputation is everything. If you feel like you're being attacked, fighting back is best done by answering questions and showing why you're so good at what you do, not by responding with passive aggressive insults.
When you punch holes in the hull of your ship while you're still at dry dock, how do you expect to sail without mishap?
I am a published writer. I've seen good and bad in the industry. I'm not as experienced as writers like Uncle Jim, but I have been published in several different genres. Usually, I like giving people the benefit of the doubt. I find it hard to do so, however, when you're busy sabotaging yourself by your actions.
I do hope that you make it. That would be fantastic. In the meantime, there are two things you may have forgotten or just not understood about the publishing industry.
1) The publishing industry is like other industries in that one thing drives it. Word of mouth. One customer that likes you won't be as vocal as one customer that dislikes you. Same situation as people you work with.
2) The publishing industry is different than most industries in that this is a *small* community. Everyone "knows" everyone, or how to spread the word to everyone. The wee baby author you insult today may be tomorrow's top editor that can blacklist you so fast your company loses everything.
I see that you removed the blog post in question. That's a start. But here's your chance to show us that you mean what you say and that you can do what you say. Actions speak louder than words. I wish you good luck with your launch. In the meantime, I think I shall do as several people have recommended and wait to see how well you do with what you have.