Just returned from a non-trad Thanksgiving. We, my Kansas daughters and I, decided to try for something different in a holiday: peace, no boozy menfolk, no bickering and actually having fun. We talked about it all fall because it would be expensive, the car trip to KCK is a little over four and a half hours, and of course we were apprehensive about breaking with the traditional family feast at my sister's house. My sister was agreeable. she and her husband could use the time to strip wallpaper but warned us that we might go hungry on Thanksgiving.
We were not sure that we could even find a restaurant open on Thanksgiving but agreed that foregoing the feast would be worth no cooking, no dishes, no football and no political rants from our asshat uncles. (One actually warned us--three women and a child-- not to go to Missouri because of impending race riots.)
We had a great non-trad time swimming, working out, visiting outside of a kitchen, shopping. Best of all, we lucked out on Thanksgiving dinner. There was a restaurant nearby that offered a family style turkey dinner. It was great and having the courses served with some time in between gave us about an hour and a half to visit and dine like the guests not the maidservants.
The catch was that the family style meal was geared for 4-6 large adults. We were left with serving bowls of suucotash, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, mac & cheese, (yeah--no lie--mac and cheese with little bacon bits) a giant turkey leg untouched, slabs of white meat, stuffing, pumpkin pie and apple cobbler. Six big boxes of leftovers and the turkey leg--we packed it up and took off for home.
By the time we reached my bachelor brother's town we were a little worried about him. Since my sibs and I had all agreed to do what we wanted for the holiday, he had gone to Colorado for the weekend but was at home alone on Thanksgiving Day. We stopped by his house; the kitchen was bare, no holiday food. We called him. He was out in the garage disposing of some souvenirs he had brought back from Colorado. We surprised him. Boy did we surprise him. He came to the back door in a cloud of noxious smoke and was very glad to see us. and the six boxes of holiday food. He was planning on having cereal for dinner; the same thing he had for lunch.
I will never forget my 62 year old baby brother's joyful, if bleary, face, as he tore into that turkey leg with one hand and the pumpkin pie with the other. We left him to his dinner and took off for home. Magnolia did remark that Uncle John was wearing some funny smelling after shave lotion. To each his own this holiday and it was a good one for all---s6