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Okay, I seriously, honestly, completely mean this hypothetically, and please don't take it as a comment on you, but... If you accept a couture dress from a man in exchange for going out to dinner with him, and the dress is the reason you agree to go... doesn't that kind of make you a paid escort, at least?
Like I said, it was just the flat-out, "I want you to go out to dinner with me and I'll give you this dress if you say yes," that bothered me, when there were so many ways to handle it that would have made it so much less prostitutey. (Including Felicity--Felicity!--not acting like she just won the lottery, instead of confirming that the price of an evening with her is a pretty dress.) I have zero problem with gifts, even expensive ones, really, especially from a guy like Ray for whom the 15k or whatever the dress cost would be like the price of a paperback for anybody else. I like gifts. I like being given gifts. Just, it wasn't presented as a gift, it was presented as payment.
Also, I hated her shoes.
I would see it as persuasion. I see it like this. If someone asks me to do something I don't want to do I'm not going to do it. In this case Felicity would not want to go to this dinner, so she would say no. However, if someone offers me something that I want in exchange for doing something I ordinarily would want to do, unless it is something my morality is against, there is a fairly strong chance I can be swayed. The more I want what is being offered the better the chance.
I went back and rewatched the scene and it seemed more bribe-y than escort-y.