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Hello all! I've been lurking on and off for a couple of months now after a writing blog I enjoy recommended these forums as a great place to grow your craft as a writer.

I write a little bit of a lot of things, but somehow I always seem to make my way back to fantasy. I'm most partial to urban fantasy, but high fantasy and magical realism are also favorites. Other genres I dabble in include YA, humor, and sci-fi.

I recently graduated with a degree in English and promptly entered into an unrelated business field where I find myself unlearing a lot of what I thought I knew.

The largest of these "un-lessons" is what it means to be a writer when nobody is grading your final project, a (sometimes painful) truth I am still coming to terms with in my writing life.

More importantly, it has encouraged me to confront how undeveloped my voice, style, and handle on craft are, when turned to applications other than essays. I also went a little off the rails after school ended and no one could "make me" read, write, or talk about books, so I am somewhat drunkenly stumbling back home right now to the world of reading and writing.

This seems like a good place to pick back up.

Sorry about the autobiography. My love of rambling is exceeded only by how much I like talking about myself.

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Hey M. :) Nice to meet you. May I ask, what does it mean to you to be a writer when no one is grading you? (I'm asking because, ten years out of school, I still don't know the answer and I'm not above looking at someone else's paper :) )
 

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I share a lot of your ambivalence about graded writing projects. I read student papers for 26 years. Administrations--and the students themselves--demanded grades, but I tried to offer more of an effective writing support system through evaluation and discussion.

It didn't work for everyone. Many scribbled whatever to slap on the ol' bastard's desk to get required English behind them, but some came out better writers and challenged themselves above and beyond basic expository and research writing. I suspect that even taking the long way around, you may have, too.

Anyway, :welcome: to where writers gather. I think I may have learned more here than ever before. :D
 

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My love of rambling is exceeded only by how much I like talking about myself.

;)

:D I love self deprecating humor.

Also, I just googled "deprecating" because I was in utter disbelief that I actually spelled it correctly.

Welcome!
 

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Thank you everyone! What a warm welcome. :)

Hey M. :) Nice to meet you. May I ask, what does it mean to you to be a writer when no one is grading you? (I'm asking because, ten years out of school, I still don't know the answer and I'm not above looking at someone else's paper :) )

Heidi, I can't say I've found an answer to this yet (and it gives me hope that you're still looking) but after almost four months of barely reading and not writing I am slowly finding my way towards what I like to read and how I like to write (rather than what I know will earn an "A").

It's fun...for the most part.
 

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Oh that's excellent. I agree, it is fun, doing what you like, aside from that feeling of doubt about whether or not it's okay to do what you like. It sounds like you're on the road to post-study recovery.