I thought BunnyMaz's post was fantastically well put together and it made for very thought-provoking reading. I have to confess, it's not a subject I expected to stumble across in office party, but I'm very glad she posted it.
However, I agree with RobJ that a simple couple of statements in the newbie guide that make it absolutely clear that behaviour of this sort won't be tolerated under any circumstances might be clearer than this thread in its entirety. Just my opinion, of course, and I'm absolutely behind any efforts to put a stop to this sort of behaviour, whatever form that takes.
Boston's point about becoming more aware of some of the appalling attitudes towards women that seem so prevalent in our society through his daughter's exposure to them is an interesting (and sad) one. I don't have any kids myself, but maybe I will one day. Part of the reason we've never had any to date is that, until recently, we lived in an area of the UK where social problems were rife and it wasn't uncommon to see very public and very abusive behaviour towards women. If I ever have a daughter, I just don't want her to have to deal with that. Equally, if I ever have a son, I don't want him to grow up thinking of women as anything other than his fellow human beings, to be treated with the same level of respect and consideration as he'd want for himself. If he can't manage that, then what hope would he have of a happy and fulfilling relationship when he grows up?
And those of you raising kids with that sort of attitude, please keep in touch! I will need a supply of nice people for my hypothetical kids to socialise with when they're old enough to be let out of the house unsupervised (most likely in their late-40s!).