Well, here's the best approach to take:
I smoothed my skirts--just like my long, blonde hair, the things were a real nuisance in zero g-- and self consciously checked my makeup in my reflection in the console. It was running again, forming slight smudges under my brilliant, blue eyes, but with the zorgs attacking, I wouldn't have time to fix it. I had to go to the loo again too, because of my teacup bladder. Hopefully, I could hold it, so I wouldn't embarrass myself during the upcoming battle. I fingered my lips nervously.
My large, full breasts floated up, along with my skirts, as I unstrapped myself from the captain's chair. The zorg were real dreamboats, I'd heard. Ferocious warriors, but also very handsome in that ruthless plunderer sort of way, and they loved taking female prisoners. I hadn't had a good romantic subplot lately, and at 35 (albeit one with the body of an 18 year old, thanks to the 24th century's cosmetic surgery breakthroughs), my biological clock was starting to chime.
Okay, sorry. Seriously? Women are people. Each is an individual with her own hopes, dreams, fears etc. Yes, there are some
average differences between men and women overall. As groups. Offset averages with overlapping bell curves. But no one is a perfectly average representation of their gender in every (or even most) way. You'll be writing an individual person, not an amalgamation of "all women." Write a person who is interesting first and foremost.
Probably the biggest mistake that men make when writing from the viewpoint of a female character is to stick
male gaze in (like I did in my silly little thing). Worrying about whether a particular female character's attitudes, inner voice, and behavior is "typically feminine" or not though? Don't sweat it. We're all individuals in the end.