Perks, it sounds like a very complex situation. I’ll share some of my experience with my rescue pit. He’s the sweetest, dopey dog ever. He came from a very bad situation. He almost died as pup from parvo, was exposed to meth lab fumes, left to live in his own mess, fed erratically and not consistently.
When we got him, he was very scared. He hid all the time, slunk around on his belly like he expected punishment. It took a year before he came out of his shell. He still cringes if someone yells and we’ve had him about 10 yrs now.
My husband and I used to work with someone who has owned lots of pits over the years. One thing we have all agreed on is that pit bulls need a strong leader. That person at our house is first my husband. All animals (and children) respect his authority, even if he has not met them prior. Pits often tend to have a very high prey drive and they will fixate very easily, which can be dangerous. Mine gets worked up about cats and other small animals. When he starts to fixate, I have to physically break his line of sight because he won’t listen. We watch for it and nip it in the bud very early. There are also times where he is just a grumpy ol’ cuss. We have two other indoor dogs and some days he doesn’t seem to get along with anyone. When that happens, I give him private time in his crate in my room where it is quiet and dim.
Now one of the things I wonder about is what situation this pit you are dealing with is from. It may be that he is not very good at interacting with people and may not know how. His owner really should know what skills he is lacking and be working on those. The owner should also be making the introductions between dog and people. I’m more concerned that this poor pit has an inadequate owner and may pay the price for that.
I’d love to meet the poor doggie and see for myself. It’s hard to say without doing that. Our dog, despite all his faults and my dad’s vehement statements that we needed to be rid of him once we started having children, has been the very best with the kids. He’s been highlighted and had chocolate syrup poured all over him (he didn’t eat it) in fits of toddler inspiration. The oldest, as a very young toddler, once grabbed him by the man berries and he didn’t do more than yelp until help arrived and fled the living room once he was free. I couldn’t ask for a better dog than that.
When we got him, he was very scared. He hid all the time, slunk around on his belly like he expected punishment. It took a year before he came out of his shell. He still cringes if someone yells and we’ve had him about 10 yrs now.
My husband and I used to work with someone who has owned lots of pits over the years. One thing we have all agreed on is that pit bulls need a strong leader. That person at our house is first my husband. All animals (and children) respect his authority, even if he has not met them prior. Pits often tend to have a very high prey drive and they will fixate very easily, which can be dangerous. Mine gets worked up about cats and other small animals. When he starts to fixate, I have to physically break his line of sight because he won’t listen. We watch for it and nip it in the bud very early. There are also times where he is just a grumpy ol’ cuss. We have two other indoor dogs and some days he doesn’t seem to get along with anyone. When that happens, I give him private time in his crate in my room where it is quiet and dim.
Now one of the things I wonder about is what situation this pit you are dealing with is from. It may be that he is not very good at interacting with people and may not know how. His owner really should know what skills he is lacking and be working on those. The owner should also be making the introductions between dog and people. I’m more concerned that this poor pit has an inadequate owner and may pay the price for that.
I’d love to meet the poor doggie and see for myself. It’s hard to say without doing that. Our dog, despite all his faults and my dad’s vehement statements that we needed to be rid of him once we started having children, has been the very best with the kids. He’s been highlighted and had chocolate syrup poured all over him (he didn’t eat it) in fits of toddler inspiration. The oldest, as a very young toddler, once grabbed him by the man berries and he didn’t do more than yelp until help arrived and fled the living room once he was free. I couldn’t ask for a better dog than that.
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