1: Male, first person POV: I am circa 30K into a M/F contemporary erotic romance told entirely in my male character's , first person POV. That's the way it's coming to me, and though I've tried to write this thing in my F's POV…it's not happening. I've had a go at putting it into third person, with both M and F's POV, but…meh. So am I nuts to think there are readers who enjoy a male only 1st person POV romance/erotic romance book? I haven't read any that I can remember, but the story won't be told any other way.
Romance from the man's POV appeals to me enormously (straight female). Women want him, men want to be him, right? As a woman, I definitely get a lot of wish-fulfillment from having access to the man's mind.
Having said that, I think that these are particularly difficult for women to write. In my own writing, the scenes I am mostly likely to have to re-write are ones in which a male lead is dealing with strong emotions. Men just don't emote the way women do, you know? It makes it easy to mis-step when formulating a character's feel-act-speak units.