What OS do you have?
I use Windows 7. Here is the URL I have: http://www.starchat.net/chat/?chan=absolutewrite
Beyond that, I use no chat programs or anything like that. When I go to the url, it shows me a couple of pulldown menus of smileys, and a clickable name at the bottom. I click on the name,, and it gives me a list of chatrooms. None of the rooms listed are named absolute write. When I click on any of the names, it takes me back to the pulldown menu page.