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Heard about this on the radio this morning.
A man named Jia Jiang has been practicing dealing with rejection by requesting ridiculous things from strangers. His theory is that if he goes into a scenario expecting to be rejected, the rejection doesn't really sting and he'll become more confident when asking for something.
As I listened, I realized that I had already begun to adopt a similar mindset toward the querying process. It began when I heard the story of how Stephen King had a nail on his wall that held all his rejections. You've probably all heard how the rejections were so numerous that eventually the nail couldn't hold them all and fell off the wall.
Getting a story published is hard, but getting rejected is easy, so I decided to measure myself against that nail. Each rejection is a badge of honor, concrete proof that I tried. Whenever one arrives, I get to add to the pile! Of course, I'd prefer to have my stories accepted, but until that day comes, my goal is to get more rejections than Stephen King. I may never match his success, but by golly I can surpass his failures!
How do you guys motivate yourselves to keep querying?
A man named Jia Jiang has been practicing dealing with rejection by requesting ridiculous things from strangers. His theory is that if he goes into a scenario expecting to be rejected, the rejection doesn't really sting and he'll become more confident when asking for something.
As I listened, I realized that I had already begun to adopt a similar mindset toward the querying process. It began when I heard the story of how Stephen King had a nail on his wall that held all his rejections. You've probably all heard how the rejections were so numerous that eventually the nail couldn't hold them all and fell off the wall.
Getting a story published is hard, but getting rejected is easy, so I decided to measure myself against that nail. Each rejection is a badge of honor, concrete proof that I tried. Whenever one arrives, I get to add to the pile! Of course, I'd prefer to have my stories accepted, but until that day comes, my goal is to get more rejections than Stephen King. I may never match his success, but by golly I can surpass his failures!
How do you guys motivate yourselves to keep querying?
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