God, I want to do the same thing too. The version of my MS that the publisher has is "so last month." My novel changes by the week. I'v head tons of insights about the protagonist and have switched from third person to first. Can't I just write the publisher and request, if they haven't looked at it already, that I resend the updated version? As much as I want to, I think I know the answer: it's unprofessional.