This is the reception I got when I said we really need to have refreshments at our viewings
I just meant that hours with no sustenance was something you never see in a good Southern gathering, so wouldn't it be polite at that kind? No, it's the tackiest thing ever, apparently
I can actually see reasons why this is a good idea (the disabled folks he mentioned). But like I said, I want my coffee at a wake, too. And more chairs, darnit! We always have like four. Wtf?
eta: Actually, at the last funeral I went to, the funeral home guys discretely handed out bottled water with custom labels for the funeral home on them. Because that's not tacky at all