I have finished writing my book and am in the final stages of editing. I don't want to give too much away, but the basis of my book is truly unique and has, as far as I am aware, not been done by any other author. Ever.
Every person I've described my book to has been incredibly intrigued and fascinated. I feel like, if I were to describe it in a query letter, it would very likely grab the attention of the person reading it.
However, I am overwhelmed with everything I read about rejection in the publishing world. I am leaning toward skipping the query letters altogether and just opting for self-publishing. I guess the feedback I'm hoping to get is, is it even worth it to try getting someone to publish my work? Having tried to publish a children's book in the past, I know about waiting months to hear back, and then getting that disappointing rejection letter. So as an unpublished author without an agent, is it a waste of time to spend the extra time and effort crafting query letters, researching publishers, and making trips to the post office? Or am I pretty much SOL if I even give it a shot?
You're in for hard work and ups and downs no matter which path you take.
I don't know much about your book or its genre, and my thoughts could change if I knew. But based on what you've said, my advice would be to query
after you're sure the book's as good as possible.
If you self-publish and sell 2 copies a month, you'll have a much more difficult time changing your mind. Very few agents or publishers will look at previously published
anything. There are some, but they're few and far between. Instead of a pool of hundreds to query, you'll have a handful and it's over.
But if you query first, self-publishing stays on the table should you decide to go the other way. You're giving yourself more long-term options by querying first, in my opinion.
Unpublished authors get published all the time. Every book you see on the shelves was written by someone who was once unpublished. So if you want to be published by a publishing house, try that. Rejection is part of the process, and one you simply have to work with. It's no more painful than having a self-published book that doesn't sell or gets bad reviews. That may even feel worse.
Self-publishing is an option, but in all honesty, if it's not in a hot genre and you have no other books available, it could languish. This is especially true if you don't know much about self-publishing and jump in without a great, professional-looking cover and editing and/or proofreading by someone besides yourself. There's also marketing to deal with, like sending your book to reviewers and figuring out promotion strategies.
If this is your only book in this genre, and you're pinning all your hopes on it without moving on and starting another (I don't know that you are, just a warning), then you're setting yourself up for disappointment right from the beginning no matter which path you choose. You need to be prepared to send it to dozens, maybe hundreds of places. Sure, you could get picked up right away. It's possible. But you can't plan on that. If you self-publish, you should be prepared for months of selling a couple of copies, or none. It might sell well right away, but again you simply can't expect that. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
If no one but you has read your book, and you don't have other publications or experience with editors, you might consider getting a beta reader or two to give you feedback on the actual work instead of just the concept. Make sure it's written well and works on the story level. Don't rely on friends and family, because they usually just want to be encouraging. Get someone else's eyes on the manuscript, so you can get hopefully objective feedback.
The idea that your book is unique and nothing like it has ever been done before . . . I doubt it. Hearing you say that makes me worry for how disappointed you might be, because that's one of things that newer writers tend to think, but it usually isn't true. It's possible, but I have to admit that a little alarm bell went off in my head at that line. It's
probably not as unique as you think it is. Here's hoping it is! But most things have been done before, many times.
Look at it this way. If you send some queries, the responses you get might help you discover that your idea really is unique and marketable, or you might learn that it still needs some work. I think it's probably worth doing, at any rate. If you get an offer from an agent or trade publisher, get an IP lawyer to look it over to make sure you understand what you're signing and not giving up anything you don't want to give up. Some contracts need more negotiation than others, and some agents aren't as diligent as they should be. If you get offers you're not happy with, you don't
have to take them, so there's not much harm in trying.
If you're querying to see what kind of bites you get, you can always spend that time writing the next book and researching self-publishing in case you decide to go that route. If you decide you don't want to query, don't rush into self-publishing, either. Research it, so that when you do it, you do it with some knowledge and a game plan.
Just don't rush either decision. Make sure the book is ready to go, then weigh your options. No one can really tell you which path is right for you, but the more you learn about both paths, the better off you'll be.