what's more respectful than the truth, than honesty? and if i happen to stumble across a 'real' writer, i'll act a perfect gentlemen.
I am wondering what you call a "real writer".
A writer, simply put is one who writes. Everyone who writes on a regular basis is considered a writer whether or not they have ever been published.
Writers can mean those who write for newspapers or those who write fiction, those who write for medical journals, or those who write TV sitcom scripts. They all write. They all get Writer's Block. If I was to start detailing all of them, I'd have to write an encyclopedia on the subject, so, for the sake of simplicity, in this post, we will assume that you are thinking of a writer as one who writes fiction in novel or short story format. Now, back to the question: What is a writer?
A writer is someone who writes, probably every day or nearly so. Usually they feel compelled to write, as though they have no control over it. It is as though they will die if they cannot write something down. Their every fiber burns with the sensation, the uncontrollable passion, that they must put words to paper in order to survive. They feel every emotion their characters feel: the love, the pain, the horror, the fear, the anxiety, and the lust for adventure. They not only feel their characters, they become their characters. Everything in life sparks a new story idea. They awake at night from their sleep to jot down in notebooks. They pull their car off the road to write down ideas on the edges of maps. They are obsessed with the fever that is coming known as writing. That is a writer.
An author however, is generally perceived as a writer who has been published. For some writers, it is enough that they write, publishing their work is not their goal. For most writers, however, the goal is to become a published author. The trick is being published. You have many options.
It must also be remembered that everyone started out as a hobby writer before they could become a published author... even Stephen King started out a hobby writer.
Anyways, how many books, novels, stories, articles, and plays need to be published before you consider one to be a writer?
This forum is for writers of all levels, from those just starting out to those who've been published for many years. So, yes, you are going to find a lot of people on here seeking advice; that is after all, the purpose of the forum: for those who know the answer to give advice to those asking the questions.