The No News is No News Purgatory Thread, Vol. 7

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Calla Lily

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Vandal wins best Pork Chop of the day.

sunna, I'm like that the very few times I see convents or monasteries or their denizens in movies. "What? It'sNOT like that! Who wrote this script? Did they do ANY research?" While the DH and kids are all :e2paperba

Another reason to look forward to Chernobyl Diaries: No shakycam. :hooray:

Speaking of, moving 8 times in 4 years kinda cured me of homesickness. That and the fact that my old neighborhood, while never great, is multiple crime scenes waiting to happen now. I'm very glad my folks have moved to a senior apartment complex. We've lived in our house for 24 years now. Whenever I return from travel and make that right turn onto our street, I feel invisible knots inside me relax.
 

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(((Dys))) No words of wisdom. But, I do have chocolate. :)

Vandal, BEST PORK CHOP!
 

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(Which probably only reemphasizes the nagging doubt that maybe I spectacularly fucked things up by emigrating and what the hell was I even thinking>? Was I thinking?)

I had this same nagging voice when I filed for divorce. It was scary and maybe stupid and I felt kinda like Indiana Jones in the Last Crusade where he has to take that leap of faith.

You just move forward. Right or wrong, always forward. As long as you don't look back, don't regret, then there is no wrong choice.
 

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I had this same nagging voice when I filed for divorce. It was scary and maybe stupid and I felt kinda like Indiana Jones in the Last Crusade where he has to take that leap of faith.

You just move forward. Right or wrong, always forward. As long as you don't look back, don't regret, then there is no wrong choice.

To be perfectly honest, I felt like this when I got married. :ROFL:
 

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Oh, I so understand this attachment to place or people thing.

I have learned, through trial and error after moving back and forth across the Atlantic a few times, that England is my home. I'm a Brit and that's not going to change.

Oh, and yeah, growing up sucks.

Chicken tikka masala and naan bread for dinner tonight, I'm just going to put that naan under the grill now.

Crazy, busy day, pretty much 10 hours with an hour break. Still, got a lot done. :D
 

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Hey all!

Cin, your 'toast' cracked me up today. I could just hear it in my head.

heh!

gjb was a harsh critic and said it wasn't
so great but i like the idea of our hopes as
tiny defenseless bubbles being burst by
giant needles and other horrific sharp things.
(or on a brighter hopeful note, out maneuvering to float
another day! =)

i'm very visual. and i like to make jabby
motions with my hands. =)

also, i enjoyed your nesting update.
you obviously have prime real estate for birds?
 

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Caleb, I'm the same way. The only time I truly felt attached to a place was in Japan. It's been over four years and I STILL miss it. But, the place I grew up, *shrugs*, I could leave tomorrow and not look back.

I never used to be: I moved all the hell over the place in my 20s, and while I've always had a ferocious attachment to the memories of my childhood, I felt that way about very few people, and not at all about the places I grew up.

But the older I get, the more a certain shape to the skyline, or a familiar set of weather patterns-- most of all the right scents-- have a profound effect on my general sense of well-being. Home isn't tied to conscious memories for me: it's the way the light hits a field in early fall, or the way the air smells after a certain kind of thunderstorm, or the look of a line of white pines against a night sky. I'm sure there are memories attached to these things, but mostly I just wander around with this intense but completely non-specific sense of deja vu hitting me at unexpected moments.

It's kind of awesome, actually. Maine feels right to me in a way nothing else ever has.


*looks up*

Er. /florid writer musings. Sorry. :gone:

свиная отбивная


(Yes, that's Russian for pork chop)

:roll:


Мы странная пара, но не странно :D
 

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Мы странная пара, но не странно :D

*is fairly certain this is Klingon. Or Jawa. Pick one.*

ETA: Also, how many people just scampered off to run this through Babelfish?
 

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1. sunna, translate the last bit of your post, pls? kthx.
2. You so need to put the above "home" lines in a character's mouth. The MC of Song, methinks, perhaps, hmm?

Speaking of which, when am I getting that to beta? <--sledgehammer hint
 

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Meep. It might be a while. That one needs a total rewrite now, and I'm waffling on how far into it I want to get before I know how much (and hopefully why) editors hate SWORD.

Nevertheless, I snorple you muchly. :D

*is fairly certain this is Klingon. Or Jawa. Pick one.*

Hilariously, I once wrote a college paper for an Anthro class comparing the Klingons in TOS to the Russians during the Cold War period.

Mr. Sunna was unamused. :D


It's kind of rough -- I don't do idiom very well. But it basically comes out to "We're a strange couple, but not that strange."
 

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sunna, so well expressed.

i do find myself missing taiwan and
yearning to visit china. but my home is
my home here and i've loved the little
nest we've built for ourselves. i'm a cali
girl through and through. (and i never miss
LA, sorry blondie, haha! tho i grew up in the
burbs there.)

i associate homesickness with a smell for
sure, and often missing on a visceral level.

had a lovely morning volunteering. was able
to tell the music teacher and the science teacher
(who came to get coffee) how much my bubs
enjoy their classes. which was very nice.

the bubs, including my munchkin who is 7,
got to dissect pig hearts last week!
 
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lily pie, this is because we're lucky
enough to send them to private school.
they aren't doing dissection yet as far as
i know in public elementary.

and i personally never dissected until i
was in biology in 10th grade.

this private school is "affordable" and
i'm grateful we can give this to them. still
angry and heartbroken over the state of
cali's k-12 tho.

they'll be entering public school again come
tween time.
 

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Somehow I get the feeling that I'll have to do some couch surfing when I'm done with school. Volunteers, now that I've probably already traumatized the UK? :tongue

Oh yes! This reminds me. I don't know when you're out of school, but this goes for you and any other purgy with wandering feet. I've now got a free room until November. And a second bathroom! Anyone who feels inclined to come see the sights of the Bay Area is free to drop by until then. :)

ETA: Actually I guess that invitation's just for the ladies. Not sure how hubs would feel about me hanging out with a dude while he's at work all day. ;)
 

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спасибо, росетта стёнь. ;)
Becky, whose spelling in Russian still sucks.
And started this post 20 minutes ago.
 

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Somehow I get the feeling that I'll have to do some couch surfing when I'm done with school. Volunteers, now that I've probably already traumatized the UK? :tongue

I have an obscenely comfortable couch. And a Rosie. And an LGwenn and LWalker if we can reel them in with promises of not being boring. And DC. And a New York overnight trip by train.
 

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Oh yes! This reminds me. I don't know when you're out of school, but this goes for you and any other purgy with wandering feet. I've now got a free room until November. And a second bathroom! Anyone who feels inclined to come see the sights of the Bay Area is free to drop by until then. :)

You know, I've actually never really been to California. Don't tempt me, because I may take you up on that. ;)

Cindy, that sounds like an awesome school.

And thanks for letting me rant, guys. Feeling better already. Apparently deep down I'm still an angsty teen. Which would explain all that black eyeliner I'm wearing.

By the way, Tas and Caleb and everyone else who likes tea, I brought some seriously awesome tea home with me from Germany. We have this tea and spice store, which is out at the ass end of nowhere, but man, they have some awesome teas. Never been much of a fan of rooibos tea, but I think I've been converted. Brought home a green roibos with lemon, mango, cactus and cornflower in it that's just delicious. Also some nice chai, a green tea with jasmine and a plum cinnamon rooibos in addition to some spices. I think I'll be in good writing fuel for a while.

~Dys, going through a pot or two a day.

ETA: Also, did I mention the irony of how Para is apparently the only Brit on the planet who doesn't like tea? Incomprehensible. ;)
 

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But, the place I grew up, *shrugs*, I could leave tomorrow and not look back.

This is me, too. Except I didn't really have an anchor growing up. My dad was in the service when I was little and we traveled and moved a lot up until I was 5. When I was 9 we moved again for about 7 years, but moved again to So Cal where I lived for 22 years. I've been in Nevada for 21 years. I'd miss Nevada if I left and I have some nostalgia for So Cal at times. I miss the beach, but I have to live in the desert for health reasons.

Vandal wins best Pork Chop of the day.

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Somehow I get the feeling that I'll have to do some couch surfing when I'm done with school. Volunteers, now that I've probably already traumatized the UK? :tongue

Come on down!
 
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